All the things about great sex involves touching and mastering the essentials of touching is one of the best ways to make her realize how fun sex can be. Therefore I want to share with you some techniques for touching a woman, that will give her euphoric sensation, make her flush uncontrollably with excitement and drive her wild with desire.
(1) Touch her more
The 1st thing you must know is that women love to be touched. For women, being touched gives her strong feelings of approval. It is a powerful reward to a woman when you touch her and it can instantly make her feel great.
Women link many feelings of sexuality, love and trust with the sensations, love and trust with the sensations that are aroused in them when a man puts his hands on her. It can make her feel both sexually excited and safe at the same time. This can trigger her body to release certain chemicals into her blood that make her feel more attractive and comfortable with the man that she is with.
(2) Pay attention to how she likes to be touched
There are particular types of touching that women find more romantic, more sensual and more arousing than others. However, the problem is every woman is different and therefore you need to do some experimenting to find out which ones she responds to most. The main idea here is to really tune in to her and notice how she is responding.
Most men are rather lacking in creativity in touching. They will always do it the same way because it worked on their 1st girlfriend, or the way they think they are supposed to do based on what they heard. By thinking out of the box, you will open a huge new world of sexual opportunity for yourself.
You can try the following while looking into her eyes:
(a) Use your fingertips very lightly so that it almost gives her some ticklish feeling. Try it out inside her wrists and up to her elbow.
(b) Stroke her gently, but not tentatively with your palm. Try running it up her back, her neck, her legs, arms, or cheeks.
(c) Place your hand firmly like a manly handshake on her shoulder, the back of her neck, her thigh, arm or hand.
(d) Cup her with your hand and stroke gently with your thumb.
(e) Try with gentle pinching and pulling on everywhere from her shoulder blades to her labia and clitoris.
(f) Starting at her neck, use your fingernails to pet upwards into her hair along her scalp and then slide your fingers back while gently tugging her hair between your fingers.
(3) Touch with feelings
You may not realize this - a woman can feel, not just the physical sensation of your hand on her skin, but she can also sense the emotional content of your touch. When you touch a woman while thinking sexual thoughts about her, and when you focus that intent into your touch, she will feel it very strongly and her body will respond to it. In the same way, when you feel tender feelings of attraction and protectiveness for your woman when you stroke her hair, this will make her feel loved and safe.
To recap what I had said about sensual touching, you need to:
Touch her more
Pay attention to how she likes to be touched
Touch her with feelings
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